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What comes to mind when you think of chocolate? Perhaps Godiva Dawson Knox Jersey , or even Hershey's? Both of which get the most discriminating pallet all warmed up. Recently, searches popular in the charts are not the famous chocolate brands but New Orleans Mayor Ray Nagin. Yes that's right!


So what does chocolate and Ray Nagin have to do with each other? Oblivion comes to mind, and bittersweet. New Orleans Mayor Ray Nagin made two startling statements in his intonated utterance. Although he has already apologized for his recent dynastical statement on re-building a ? chocolate New Orleans" and saying, "You can't have New Orleans no other way.? he also said, "I'm really sorry that some people took that they way they did, And that was not my intention,". "I say everybody's welcome." He also said I should have never used the term "chocolate.?


Even if he did not mean the comments to be inflammatory Devin Singletary Jersey , they were, and plain reveres discrimination. Those before us have fought, pleaded and died in their effort to throw away labels like differencing between one another, class, ethnic backgrounds etc. Now when Mr. Mayor of the new modern century comes in with remarks like ?We are chocolate?, referencing to African Americans. His statement does nothing but demote himself Cody Ford Jersey , and his race.


He stated his intentions were to try and encourage the city's poor population to return. I am going to just state the obvious here, but if his intentions was to emphases mixing chocolate with white milk, translation: hoping Caucasians and African Americans will work together to re-build New Orleans. Would it have been better to use the Oreo Cookie ideology?


On Monday, Nagin said ?God wanted New Orleans to be primarily black and said he didn't care what the predominantly white Uptown section of the city had to say about it.? Nagin also said, "We as a people need to fix ourselves first." In another statement Nagain said, ?Why do our young men hate each other so much that they look their brother in the face and they will take a gun and kill him in cold blood?"


Now did he just contradict himself in the same speech? Ok Ed Oliver Jersey , so I understand this correctly he wants all races to get together and work to together on building a New Orleans, yet he does not give an assiduousness care about what the white Uptown section has to say about it. Yet he stands by his statement ?We as a people need to fix ourselves first??


So making light of the serious blooper he made, should all the white Uptown folks get a tan, and the black lower poor part of town do what Michael Jackson did? Weather good intentions were meant or not I wonder if Ray can really weather the hurricane he just re-created.


5 Ways to Beat the Comparison Trap Family Articles | October 5, 2004
Picture this scene: You ... your work schedule to attend a party in your child's ... You happily hug your child hello as you arrive. Then you notice a table laden with adorable ceramic d


Picture this scene: You re-arrange your work schedule to attend a party in your child's classroom. You happily hug your child hello as you arrive. Then you notice a table laden with adorable ceramic dalmations, hand-painted Bills Kids Jersey , personalized and beribboned for each child in the class by one child's stay-at-home mother.

Now try another: Your alumni magazine features the stunning accomplishments of one of your former classmates. Unlike you, she has not let motherhood slow her professional advancement one bit. Her children, smiling beside her in the magazine photo, seem to be turning out fine.

If you're not prepared, either scene could drag you into "the comparison trap."

Maybe you've been there -- times when you compared yourself with someone else and experienced unpleasant results.

IT'S A NO-WIN.

Comparisons just don't work. For one thing, they're a greased slope into a pit of envy Bills Youth Jersey , resentment or guilt. More fundamentally, comparisons fail to honor each individual's unique path in life.

FORTUNATELY, YOU DON'T HAVE TO FALL IN!

Here are five ways to beat the comparison trap.

TIP 1: GIVE YOURSELF MORE CREDIT.

Your thoughtful, loving choices to create the right balance for your family is a splendid achievement. It takes heart, intelligence, imagination Bills Womens Jersey , resourcefulness and strength.

So, try this tip for building immunity to comparisons: Look inside, and give yourself credit for the fine personal qualities you bring to living life your way. You might even mark times on your calendar to pause regularly and give yourself credit for all you are.

TIP 2: COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS.

Here's another comparison immunity-builder: Direct your attention to all that is happening in your life that you would like to keep happening. Make a list, including the benefits of doing paid work and raising a family at the same time. You might enjoy having your family help make your list longer.

As an alternative, keep a daily journal of the blessings you experience.

Whichever way you count your blessings, you'll gain perspective and be better able to resist making comparisons when you see how others are blessed.

Tips 3 Black Bills Jersey , 4 and 5 can be used in the moment when you begin to compare yourself with someone else.

TIP 3. EXHALE.

It's amazing how a timely exhale can create space for serenity and perspective.

Start by bringing your attention to your breathing, at your belly. Don't try to manipulate your breath. Just notice it, following the in-breath and the out-breath through several cycles. Then, on an out-breath, let the thoughts of comparison leave your body.

Once you've blown the comparison away, you might ask yourself Bills Jersey Sale , "Is this where I want to put my energy today?"

TIP 4. ACKNOWLEDGE LOSSES.

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